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what do i look for to see if a guy likes me?? what kind of body language do they show if interested?

Lovely question Anon, sorry it took me awhile to respond. But there are many IOI (indicators of interest) a girl can hone in on when evaluating whether or not a guy is interested in her. One thing you should always notice is how he responds to your presence when he realizes you’re near. He’ll usually be caught off guard and then try to play it off. Another thing you should look for is how he presents himself when you’re around. Look at how his posture is while you’re around him. A lot of the time guys will sit up straighter or have their shoulders pushed back to show confidence and charisma. Also, when confronting a guy, note his eye movement. This is a little two-sided as a guy who darts his eyes around can either be nervous or just not wanting to talk to you. So what you take away from reading his eyes, take with a grain of salt. However to basically generalize what to look for, note how he treats other girls and compare that to how he treats you. Does he give you priority? Does he clean up his language when he speaks to you? Just make basic observations; however, nothing beats actually going up to a guy and asking. Guys love forward girls, which surprises a lot of girls. Anyway, good luck Ms. Anon, happy new year!

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Do you ever worry about finding the right girl now that you are in college?

It actually hasn’t bothered me as much as it should. I believe she’ll come into my life in her own way, catching my attention in the process. There’s no rush with these things. I’d rather wait and find the proper fit for me than go through a plethora of girls that were mistakes. 

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